Happiness needs to come from within. And then transferred to our journeys. And yes, both people need to be in. You know, I don't get the ILY's all the time either - and in fact - I don't mind. It's almost as if all the ILY's in the months prior to the bomb weren't sincere. Now, when WAW does say it - I feel it - and it comes from someplace deeper in her core (and mine). If that makes any sense.
I think if you can get your frame to a place where you aren't "piecing", but rather off on your journey of life - and really living it - you will automatically get a partner - he/she won't be able to resist. And if you go off the deep end (thanks TJ) they will follow with intense curiosity. Inner happiness, projected outward, attracts. I'm glad to be here, where ever that is. Because I know I won't be here for long.
My .02 for now.
Sven
Never sacrifice the great for the good. Sometimes the beauty of grace is that it makes life not fair.
