CF, it's a mess. You need to work on one problem at a time, but at this point, it's all intertwined. Make sure you have a good MC. Working/talking about your problems of why you're unhappy will/should bring out about your A. You've got to come clean to your W. She deserves that respect. Be prepared and cautious. Her reactions will be normal and under the circumstances understandable. You both will probably need time apart to figure out what you both want our of your R/M. Alot is going on here, be ready for what is to come. Be true to your W, but also importantly be true to yourself.
