Phoenix, be a little careful with your line of thought that W needs to rationalize or have firm ground to stand on to S/D. We can't understand what they're thinking, and in all honesty I don't think they can explain it to us if we asked.
A Valentines Celebration with the kids would be cool! you have some teenage daughters right? You could make them gush! Make everyone dress up a little, no ratty jeans or worn out tennies. A sit down place with cloth tableclothes, a little candlelight, real waiters/waitresses. Wouldn't that be fun with the kids? A good lesson in 'how I'd like to be treated in a R when I grow up.'
Or pie would be good.
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