Patience, Love and (really) long suffering

[BeingMe]

I guess it's still a waiting game for you, Phoenix. Whatever you found, it sounds as if you are still in control of yourself, and detached. I know it's going to be difficult not to do the whole V-day thing (I am also an ol' romantic, but learned that my H isn't, and I can count on one hand how many times in almost 21 years of M that he has made any kind of effort for V-day - sigh). Here's a thought ... why not make a fuss of your D's. Buy them flowers, cards, chocolates, or whatever, and take them out to lunch (I don't remember if you have any sons, so if you have, take them with to lunch). Then, just do the dinner thing with your W, and give her a card.

Anyway, whichever way the wind blows, I hope it's not too cold a month.