Yes I have been giving it some time, but I find myself looking at it from many angles as I move away, to make sure I'm getting a true read on what I'm looking at. So far I think I've done pretty good, I just have to let go of some of the hurt and resentment. Remembering actions and words are two different things, is critical. I think W is learning that if you really look at what you plan on doing before you do it, it might not really be whay you want. I think it is also very evident that our decisions affect more people then we think, either for good or for bad. W has had to realize this and rethink her plan.