I hope in time your W sees this, my H too learned a few lessons. One time he did say how he couldnt' see how people would just fill their lives with drunken binges and that that was the core of their being, he had tried that, drink himself stupid only to get horribly sick later, realized it was pointless.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
