Thanks all, for your input. Luckily the staples held and I didn't voice anything hurtfull or sarcastic. I've noticed that W's day to day attitude after work can swing dramatically. This is why I feel that perhaps a lot of our problems originate from some of her co-workers. A large percentage of them have lives that involve D, 2nd & 3rd marriages, custody etc...but they paint a good picture of how they are happier but battle all these problems and issues in their lives. Go figure! Especially after reading DR and DB it is amazing how I can pretty much predict attitudes and histories for these people.
Case in point of the theory, you are who you chose to associate with and emulate. If I had a choice I would get a second job and have my wife come home and quit her job, breaking the cycle. Unfortunately there are only so many hours in a day.
Thank you all for your support. WCW I look forward to a steamy report. Cat03 and Xuesheng, I'll keep my eye on my goals and methods today, let's see where this takes me.