Quote: co-workers don't have to live with the mess they help W gets herself into
you hit a sore spot there, most of the stupid desicions H made (gettign a L, get an appt., hook up w/slut) were fully supported by them.
Quote: Can H give W coal in their stockings for a birthday present
Lord knows my H deserved that, I still got him something, not what I would've gotten when things were OK, but I still did something. If your heart isn't on it, just take her out to dinner alone or as a family to at least acknowledge her Bday.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
