My H says his A is not sexual. I don't know if this is true, he says they started as friends, and it is only emotional. I have read alot of cards and letters they wrote, and listened to phone messages she left for him. They seemed to be planning for a future in the next four or five years. He said we could work on us, and can tell I have changed, but he hasn't given ow up. what I want to know from mike and JM is how else can I help H to forget the ow? What can I do to get him to see that it is wrong? Just keep changing and doing the things he said I didn't do enough of before? I hope he gets some clarity before it is too late for us. Thanks, L
