Mike and Joker, Thank you so much for your open thoughts. As you can see, the rest of us LBS's are eager to get some insight into what our WAS's might have going on in their heads.
My wife seems to be waffling with her OM. She's also talking to me more and finding excuses to come to the house. However this is only when OM isn't around. I'm doing the DB stuff and it seems to help, but I sure would like to know how I could have her realize the same things you have Mike. If you haven't already, I suggest that you get the book "Not Just Friends". It deals specifically with workplace affairs, and how they can so easily happen. I believe that had I not read that book, I would never have been able to consider giving my W another chance. It helped me to understand and to not take it so personally. It would be a great book to have your wife read also. Had I not read that book, I never would have gotten to the Divorce Remedy book, which is like a Bible to me now. Good luck. I'm gonna keep my eye on this thread.
