I'd be interested in your opinions on this. My H claims our break up has nothing to do with the OW. That he always had doubts, although he admits he was completely happy on our wedding day just 18 months previously. Is this just BS? Has the fact of his affair made him re-write history so he feels less bad about what he's done? Or could he be telling the truth?
Also did you come to a sudden realisation that you wanted your wife, or was it more a slow dawning?
You cannot teach a man anything; you can only help him discover it in himself. Galileo Galilei