Thanks Jokerman. You are right 100% I am taking this one day at a time. I am slowly realizing that A) I was manipulated by a AW that needed AM. Her H treated her badly, and she is insecure... B)the things she said to me were probably not genuine. And C) when it comes right down to it... I could never trust her. Ironic isn't it? Trough all of this I came to realize that I love my W and all that we have together too much to throw away. Mike