Feelings, they can be so valuable but can also be such a load of horsesh*t! Realize that you are dealing with a fantasy here. The OW is not who you want her to be and never was. She is a joy ride that takes you away from real life. If you had of continued your A with her you would have come to find that out. To your credit you have not followed that path but have recognized the value of your M. By focusing on building a REAL relationship you will see the difference. Hats off to someone with the moral decency to try again despite the pain I know you feel right now.
