Hey there, have glad you are back w/your wife. When my H's A ended and he was back w/me he still wanted to contact her (she broke it off badly) and didn't want to end on a bad note w/her. I think she got someone and that got to him too (found and old note in which it said he was going to go back to his wife (me) but that "he" had moved in (new bf I guess).
I want you to understand that what you had w/her was an illution, you prob are still getting over it, working closely w/her just agravates things. You lost your mind for a while and your R w/her was just a patch for your problems, OP never belonged to you, your W does.
Remind yourself that OP was a mistake not a lost romance, she seems to be doing just find hoping from man to man, she isnt' worth it.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
