Hello all, Here is my story. I am married to a wonderful lady, mother of my 2 children. I have cheated. I have left. I have come back. The circumstance of my A, I am sure, is a fairly common one. It was a torrid office romance with a MW, who is now in the midst of a very ugly D. (Mix in another heap of guilt and stir) Anyway.. the OW works very closly with me, and for the most part we have remained civil, even though "I did her wrong". I am commited to staying away from her though it has been very difficult. Now, I learn that she has moved on, has a new BF and it is killing me. My heart aches and I am so confused. I love my W. I want nothing more than for my M to work out. How can I make these feelings for the OW go away? HELP!