How to handle H in separate room

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H volunteered his thoughts today and actually explained what his dilemma is!!

Basically when he left he was adamant he wanted a D and didn't want anything to do with me and now he doesn't feel 100% sure and has even thought of coming back to try. He is trying to fathom out why he is no longer 100% sure on D is it
a) because I've changed and he likes new me, or
b) because its hassle and grief to get D, or
c) he thought I didn't care and now knows I really do, or
d) is it because he feels something for me still

I said does it matter why he doesn't feel sure he wants D and that does it matter why he decides to try if thats what he decides. He said it does matter. I also blurted out the love is a decision thing from DR and gave him an example from our M and how different it might have been if we had "put" a love situation there etc etc. He asked me to write it down to think about when he was on his own! Does this mean it made sense to him?? Is this a good sign??