Validate him, dont' despair openly in front of him, I know you are dying inside, but present a strong front, tell him you understand he needs time, it is very important you say this, tell him you want to give him space, it is a big 180 and it brought some little peace between us when my H was away, he didn't feel as much on edge as before, try it.
My H also had a lawyer and paperwork, he dropped it after a while, would talk about selling the house, then he just stopped altogether. Remember, dont' believe anything you hear.
Quote: I can't believe that being ill after having our baby has led to my H not loving me anymore and leaving.
Is that the real reason? or are you trying to blame yourself somehow? NOthing excuses him to just take the cowards way out and leaving without trying your darnest to fix the marriage, so don't you be blaming yourself 100% for this mess.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
