How to handle H in separate room

[cat03]

I didn't mean to sound accusing or anything, I was trying to have you focus on yourself so you can take the pressure off your H, to give him time to come around.

One day at a time, that's how we all make it, one hr, one day, one week at a time. I can see you are still in denial, and it is understandable, it took me a longtime to get out of the denial/shock state.