what's the opposite of not coming home other than divorce?
it could be that he is still making his mind, for a time my H was between me and OW, he'd say things, about the future together, etc. It really wasn't the best thing to say, him saying "not to worry". If nothing happens tomorrow they you can just be frank and say "I'd like to know where we are going, as this separation is painful to me". He prob doesnt' realize what this is doing to you.
I know here in DB we dont' bring up R talk, but if he is hinting he is coming back and has you hanging by a thread I don't think it is fair either. Before my H came back, he'd say his T suggested we "date" each other to see how we do together (though the next week he moved back after Op broke it off)
So maybe that's what he means, he wants you to date each other which isnt' a bad idea either, it is a chance to reconect, to find out about each other again.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
