Hi Cat03. Mmmmm...He kind of said he was coming I think. What he actually said was he was having a serious think and not to worry. I slipped up and said how can I not worry when you're thinking of divorcing me and he said the decision I'm making is not divorcing I'm deciding whether to move back in and try again. So I've kind of taken it to mean he is coming home. But then now i'm thinking straight what's the opposite of not coming home other than divorce??

He has said all along that the bed is for S2 although he did mention about 2 weeks ago that if he came home he could use the bed we get for S.

Its like he's hinting because he doesn't know how to just come out and say it - I don't know. But like you say tomorrow is Thursday . I'm going to get to bed early tonight so I'm not tired or cranky and make sure I'm cheery the whole trip!!

You're right it is a good sign that he is comforting me. i think I flipped out for a few days and feel a bit more in control of myself today. H had to drive a 600 mile round trip last night/this morning and he texted me to let me know he was home safe and made a joke about where he'd been. I txtd a jokey reply back and he rang and we had a really laughing joking conversation. I can't remember the last time we joked with each other like that.

I have been thinking hard about how to behave if he does come back and I'm just going to carry on as I have been only happier because I'm another baby step forward. I'll let you know what happens tomorrow!

Me 34 H 33 S2 Together 10yrs Married 6yrs Bomb 12th Aug 06