How to handle H in separate room

[inpain_dup1]

Thank you for your reply and advice. I don't think its so much that I don't want that arrangement its more that I thought when he came back it would be because he has realised he does love me. I didn't realise that maybe he would come back before feeling that he loves me. I suppose I'm just wondering is it possible to go from being in the spare room to him being in love with me again. I'm not sure I'm explaining it well.