How to handle H in separate room

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Not entirely sure this is the right forum but here goes.

My H has started to hint that he may want to try to work on M and move back into spare room. Whilst I am thrilled at this massive improvement in our sitch I just don't know how this would work.

At the minute he is coming round every day (we have a S2 so not just to see me) and last week he was hugging me goodbye. Now this week he is talking about buying a bed for spare room and poss coming back yet now when he says goodbye he kind of gives me an I'm sorry smile and ruffles my hair???? I'm worried he's coming back because he feels sorry for me or something but daren't ask because of no R talk rule!

If he came back and was in spare room I'm not sure how to handle it. Do I act as if we are back together in every way except intimately and wait for him to make first moves on hugs, kisses etc? Do I "act as if" everything was totally normal and try to hug?? Do I treat the spare room as his private room or can I go in and give him a cup of tea or whatever when he wakes up?? I just don't know? Or should I ask him all this if he moves back. Can the no R talks be lifted slightly when he moves back???

If anyone has had partner return to work things out I would really appreciate any advice/suggestions. Thanks.

My story is in newcomers sorry I don't know how to link them together