just gettin started on my life w/o H

[ForPeanut]

I don't know what to tell you about your H. He is still so obviously conflicted. The fact that his family is putting on a bit of pressure too might actually be an ok thing. It gets him thinking. They seem to know too when to back off him.

I agree with the ridiculousness of "she doesn't parent him" statement. How sick is that. She doesn't even touch him? I guess that could make you feel better that she isn't smothering him with kisses or anything but no contact whatsoever? It's either not the truth or she has issues. If it is true though, one point for you. It's probably why he really likes seeing you play with S. One day, hopefully sooner rather than later, he will wake up and realize that a woman that won't even touch his son is no good.

Thinking of you.
~T