Wow, I just read this one post and could relate so much!
Good for you for not taking the bait about Ow and the zoo trip.
My H has a big problem with confrontation too. I'm just hoping he carries that into his R w/ Ow and one day realizes he has no voice with her either!
I've also heard the line "She doesn't parent S4, I do." I'm sorry, this is not comforting. It's her presence at all that's sickening.
Anyway, I'll read your thread soon.
Monica
My sitch: Me 40 H 30 M 8 yrs 1 S5.5 Bomb Oct 2005 Sep Nov 2005 H w/ Ow I filed for LS June 2007 H responded w/ D 2007 I have sole P custody, joint L Just need to take care of Final Judgement papers