Well, obviously your efforts are starting to pay off! You are talking and spending some time together. Not fighting. Bonus! He is being active in your S's life and not avoiding you. Positive stuff for sure.

Do you know the vehicle that supposedly belongs to his friend? Not that it really matters if it is hers. (unless he has stopped seeing her as much-then yay!) Maybe his friend is really staying with him. Most of us know how lonely it can get living alone. Especially when we have not been for so long. Hmmmm. Do you know this friend or is he a new person in your Hs life?

How did the fence go up? Do you own your house? Are you planning to or able to stay there? Just curious.

Hope tonight went just as well as the last week or so has gone! Thinking of you!
~T


Trust in yourself...you are the only one that can guide your future...

Me-28
X-30 QLC-just separated from OW after 3 yrs
M-3yrs
Tog-8yrs
D-3yrs
Bomb-8/5/06