So to continue...yesterday when H went to take son to his apartment our dog followed him to his truck. The neighbors dogs were outside and our dog went over to visit and the other dogs attacked him pretty bad.
Our dog is 3 and we've had him since he was 5 weeks old...he is our baby and is a daddy's boy...my H misses him tons since he is living with me...yesterday he had to witness the neighbor dogs tearing into him. My H was quite disturbed at the whole thing. He called my MIL, whom he was so mad at last week, to come watch our son and he took our dog to the vet. They wouldn't stitch him up even though he has holes all over that are dripping blood...yah...not cool for my tan carpet that's for sure. He texted me at work "call me now!!!" and of course I knew something was wrong. He was very kind and told me what happened. Did I mention he completely loves and adores our dog and knows how much I love him too. He was pretty disturbed and probably felt really guilty that he's left his dog too and then this happens.
After I went home I thought he was at work and texted him a picture of our depressed dog and he texted me back a few times...had a little conversation. I found out today just from converstation with him that he wasn't at work and was shocked that he had texted me back.
He even asked me for his first favor yesterday...I was pretty excited. He wanted me to stop by his apartment and pick up his mom's keys that he accidently took with him so he could take a nap before work.
Today when I got home from work he told me that he's not going to work so much overtime anymore so he can spend more time with our son and mentioned that our son is a lot different at my house than his...his mom and I reminded him that's because this is his house and he feels most confortable here. I think H is really starting to realize some things and is starting to ponder his life a little.
He told me today that he needs to go to the DMV to get his license and registration changed to his new address just so he can be legal when he drives. He also said that he needs to call the car insurance just to get new insurance cards for his truck and get his address on them. Still hasn't changed his mailing address so his mail doesn't come to my place though.
Though I know that all this could change tomorrow I really am thinking and talking about our whole situation in a positive light and other people who were so negative are really starting to come around in supporting our marriage more...they're really starting to want to understand the situation and the fact that I truely am wanting to make my marriage work.
I am just so thankful to God that he brought calm again and is helping me through this daily. He has so much grace and mercy.
