just gettin started on my life w/o H

[ForPeanut]

Just checking in...Whew, what a weekend you have had! I am so sorry you are having to deal with all of that on top of Hs crud. At least you know that his mom is "on your side" and is willing to stand up and tell him that his actions are not acceptable. I agree, stick with the family, they are yours too and will be invaluable, especially if they continue to support you and your babe. If nothing else, you know that you will be able to maintain that relationship with them, even if H is a you know what sometimes. I can relate with the whole MIL sitch. I finally got to talk to mine yesterday and told her that our suspicion about who the OW was is true and she said flat out, "no matter how nice she is, we are still going to hate her." Sad as it is, it made me feel really good that she was still "with me" on the whole thing despite my attempts to protect myself from H that could be misconstrued to be evil on my part. Anyway, I will check in or call soon. Good luck tonight!