Hi guys. I can relate to feeling like you are doing so good and then something else comes along and smacks you in the face and brings you right back down. My husband and I have been separated for 9 months. Last Saturday, he told me about the other woman. Said they were friends. H came over the house, we talked, he changed to oil in my car, and he grabbed me and held me and said he was not ready to let me go, but he is so confused. He's hinted he wants to come back...but said he is scared that our relationship will go back to the way it was. I emailed the OW and asked her to let him go...explained to her that he still loves me and wants to come home, but he is confused. She obviously called him right away because he called me and was all mad. I called her and explained to her that he and I were still seeing each other, talking and and thinking about getting back together. BUT after the phone call I made to her, he called me and said "What did you do?" Have not talked to him since. Tried, but he won't answer his phone. Ran into a friend of his over the weekend and he said that he and the OW only f_ _ _. She is married. She's been married for 30 years and has always cheated on her husband. My husband and I have been married 14 years and we have a 14 YO daughter. My H friend said that he really loves me and wants to come home, but is scared. I don't know what to do. I was doing so good for a while. If he really loves me, why doesn't he come home? Everyone tells me to get rid of him, but I can't. God said you should listen to council and take advice from others because he speaks to you through others, but I just can't stand the thought of losing this man. I need advice. I need help. I need someone to tell me what to do.
