Did anyone elses H want to separate all of the bills and change address and separate everything. My H did and has and still continues to. I've started to change his part of the bills to his address so I don't have to give him the bills anymore.
Today was just an off day...I've been doing really well but H's mom whom I'm best friends with asked H today how him and OW are doing and of course since she never asks him and never wants to meet OW he said nothing but "OK." She said "that's too bad I was hoping you'd say you guys broke up, you'd come back to your senses and wanted to get back with your wife." Apparently that's not the case yet though. His mom told him that she was worried she was going to loose me because men are flocking to me and wanting to hook up with me and even though I say I'm not interested now it's only a matter of time. He kept asking her....who is it that is interested in her...and his mom said he had a genuine concern about who was interested in me and what it would be like with Connor having another daddy. His mom told him that our son since he's so young would probably call the new man daddy and my H was disturbed at that thought but reluctantly agreed that that is a possibility...very unsettling but a possibility.
Needless to say after hearing that OW is still alive is a bit of a bummer but not that shocking....I have just been hoping and praying that my H would begin to see the light and get rid of her!
One plus is that going on 7 days running he is still being nice and brought me lunch at work a couple days this week and even called last night to see how our son is doing....which he hasn't done in atleast a month. Still some positive changes even though she's not gone. I actually feel slightly like he's atracted to me and wants to be around me more....which is always a good sign I guess.
