Cat03, where did your H live while u were separated?? Did he go out and buy a bunch of stuff to prove he's not comming home anytime soon?? I feel like my H is trying to prove to me and himself that our marriage really won't work and that he's not comming home.
Yesterday H was at my house with MIL who was watching our son. My H was very short with me and grumpy. He wanted me to get the bills together and this and that right now. I started to get frazzled then told him "they're just not ready right now...I'll let you know when they are." I was very calm and nice. I asked him how his apartment is and he was sarcastic in saying "peachy!" I said I'd heard that he got some really nice furniture and he said "yah, it's great!" Once again completely sarcastic. I almost had to smurk at his grumpyness and sarcasm towards me. He wouldn't have conversation with me and when I wouldn't do what he wanted right then he said "whatever guess we'll do it tomorrow." Didn't say bye to our son or anything. I asked him when he opened the door "are you leaving." He said yes. I told him "bubba says bye and mommy says bye." He didn't reply...just closed the door.
What the heck...to act this way with his baby who doesn't see him much and loves him so much. Could he not stand the thought of seeing my face anymore...is he that guilty...or does he just hate me??
