I hope your are doing better today, I just read that the average MLC COULD last from 6-8mths (then again, there are tons of people here with more-less time enduring this, it did take my H about that time to 'wake' up)

For the first 3mths my H also avoided me and couldn't even look me in the eye, it is the guilt that gets them. Wake up every morning and decide to be happy, to MAKE yourself happy and to be strong. This is a long road, have you considered going to a T or a woman's support group? it helped me tons, I also had 2 good friends who supported me through all this mess.
Don't be afraid to ask for help, ok? take care.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.