Thanks so much for your encouragement. It's so hard and frustrating to know what to do and say in this situation. My H hasn't talked to me in a week and a half now and has only seen our baby 1 time because he is avoiding me in hopes that I won't ask him to do another drug test I think. This weed thing is making me his enemy...I'm just praying he'll stop using and this time will pass, and my DB will get back on track again. Things were going pretty well before...now I'm a little discouraged but distanced more from not talking with him.
I think you are right though...they are truely aliens. My husband has a cupboard full of variety of hard A and frig full of beer and girly drinks for OW. He furnished his entire appartment with really nice top of line stuff...which wouldn't be weird but my husband was NEVER like this....he didn't care much about those things before.
I was chatting with some friends yesterday and they saw my H at a big community event a week ago with OW and my H tried to hide her. Why would he try to hide her from everyone...that's not the first time.
Any encouragement is appreciated. Good luck to everyone on their DB!
