first of all I commend you for working so hard and holding up.
Where is that decent loving man we thought would never leave nor hurt us in this way?? in MLC land, the way u describe your H (spending $$, obsesive text msg -when in A my H's phone bill was 170-200$, bad habits). It is sad to see a shell of a man that once was exclusively ours turned into this manic idiot throwing caution to the wind and on the brink of loosing what really matters in this life, his family.
We call them aliens, when they turn like this, because they aren't the person we married, they would'nt have done such things. While the WAS is in limbo you just have to do what you are doing, detaching and protecting your little son, I totally agree with that.
My prayers your way and I hope eventually he hits rock bottom and sees what an @ss he's made of himself and comes back to his sences.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
