Dear Lil, I want to give you feedback that your BF must really trust you to share such difficult information with you about his past. Molestation by a parent is such a complicated issue and I am glad that he is working with a therapist on all of the multitude of feelings that occur after this breach of boundary occurs. I think it will be important to be gentle with this topic and I encourage you to get the counselor to help you both through and recommend that you hold off on the example of the girls in the shower. It seems that you are a very supportive and caring partner and I hope you will take good care of yourself within this realization as well.
SusieR
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