Wow Lil! What a thing to confirm. It's one thing to suspect something like this, but completely different to actually hear someone say it themselves...my heart goes out to your BF on this.
Perhaps NOW you two can begin to move forward. It's still amazing to me the power that the spoken word holds in healing. He's finally let this out, now that it's out there...and people other than himself know about it....he can really start to deal with it.
