This is a great thread. My thread is in mlc..."are they really happier."
It is so hard not knowing what stage they are in with the ow. My H has a MOW. I found 2 weeks ago that they spent a night at a motel. Someone called to tell me. I thought I better tell H because mow H is supposedly a jealous man with a temper.When I told him I knew he said she is seperated and filing for D and that her H knew. I said " if that was the case then why do you spend most of your free time with me. If she is seperated you should be spending it with her. Go be with her." He had no answer.
After that incident we spent time together, he actually called me on the phone (often in the middle of the night or early am) asking me to come see him or just chatting for a few minutes. Very strange. But we seemed to be making progress. Then yesterday he is cold and couldn't look me in the eye. Started an argument. Must have seen MOW that day.
How do we know when they are done with them???????
