Well, H finally showed up on Friday. Said he HAD spoken to her on Monday and that he needed time to clear his head about how he felt about it. So, he now says (once again) that I am who he wants and that he loves me very much and wants a life with me raising our boys.
I told him that at this point, any contact with OW is unacceptable. I told him that he can have a friendship with her, but he just couldn't be in an R with me at the same time. He said it wouldn't be a problem (again, heard that before).
He did seem very sincere. But I do think he actually saw her on Monday and didn't just talk to her on the phone. But clains that not to be the case.
For the moment, he seems to really want to be here. But I wonder how long it will last this time.
By the way, he finally told OW that he is working on the M. Prior to this, he did not tell her he was back with me. He thought she might call here or something (which she did the first time he came back in March).
I don't knwo what to believe anymore. I know that when he is the way he is yesterday and today, i just want to be with him. It's when he starts to withdrawl that his alter ego returns.
Anyway, not sure if he's broken the addiction yet. i guess time will tell.
