Actually, I have the book but I haven't looked at it a very long time. I thought DR was a much better book and that one has pretty much my bible.
I did lay down a boundary. No more OW. ANd if he was to talk to OW, he was to tell me about it and I agreed not to ask 20 questions about it. But he contineus to talk to her (and see her as well) and has not once told me about it without being caught. I think he's completely lost... just gone.
I'll go back and take a look at that book. Thanks.
