I highly recommend James Dobson's Love must be Tough book.
You need to lay down some boundaries. Please stop comparing yourself to OW. WHo gives what her interests are? That's surface stuff. She obviousely has no integrity, self-worth, honest values, to break up someone's marriage and family with young kids.
Don't ever compare yourself to her. She in no way fits even into your catefory. If men are from Mars, Women from Venus, she is from Jupiter, or hell.
