I primarily post on the MLC board, although i have posted on this one from time to time.

How many of you have an S who is having a hard time breaking the addiction... breaking free from OP?

My H has "broken up" with OW like 5 or 6 times (i've lost track). In my H's case, I think he initiates going back to her when things feel less than perfect here at home. Then 2-3 days later he comes back and wants to "work on the M". ALthough, i should say, the first time he was gone for a month and the second he was gone for two. Then after that, he only goes for a few days.

When is the last time the last time? When is the breakup final? How many times does it take to break the addiction?