MC, my concern re Muddle confronting her about pretty much anything right now (that doesn't concern son's safety) is the fact that she gets violent! This is a major concern in any intervention that muddle attempts. for now I think Muddle lying low and trying to get by is the way to go. It is encouraging that they are going to couples C'ing and W sees someone individually, so giving that time is appropriate. Any more violence and this sitch could become unmanagable. Muddle has chosen to continue in this for now and must remain mindful of his W's inability to control her physical aggression when confronted in almost any way. How long Muddle can continue like this is the question but only he can really answer it. That's my 2 cents, anyway.
