Quote: One reason I would kind of like to start seeing other women...even though she says she wants me to do this I know it would bother her
I brought that up to my wife in one of my break downs...I asked her what she would think If I just went out and got laid. She was quite for a second and said she would be pised but she could not really say anything about it. That is why I am almost agreeing with you on the sitch to just act like you are moving on and let them come back to you. I know "Act" is really not the word I was looking for because we are really moving on to better ourselves. It just takes time to realize what we want in our lives. Yes WE still LOVE our W's very much but how much pain in torment can one guy take before he says screw it and moves on. I would love to be the OM in my wifes life right now. She is a very beutiful woman with a great personality but I just can be there for her because she has someone else. Everyone say that the OM does not matter but I agree with you. If the OM was not there feeding her all of the BS she wants to hear then it would be easier for her to focus on what she wants plus be a lot less stress on the LBS.
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
