Muddle's Waters IV

[Tiara Boy (CM)]

As counter intuitive as it sounds, if we were to all of a sudden start to talk about how horrible the marriage was with our spouse and how happy we are that we're getting out of this rotten mess, I think it will give them pause and they might turn around and defend it, even just a little bit.

Muddle-

Do you know if this has been practiced? How would one even approach the subject since R talk is discouraged by the LBS? It is a great thought but it seems almost like is unapproachable.