You are completely right. However the letting go part is just very difficult sometimes. I know that I nee to let go as well and there are days when it seems easy and then there are days where I am back to my normal controling self which I hate. I guess we just have to try and break all of the years of habits that we have created and move on with our lives and let fate and/or the HP that you believe in take over a guide us to the places we are supposed to be. Thanks Muddle that was pretty insightful.
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
