Good point, SRT. Sometimes I look at my W now and wonder what there is left to love! I won't go on a rant as to how my W has changed but sometimes I really wonder "do I want her back"? How does the sweet, gentle, loyal person I married turn into the resentful, depressed, unfaithful shell of the person she was. Beats me how it happens, I almost wish I could take the entire blame myself then it would at least be understandable.