Great job, Muddle. You didn't let your emotions get you when she started getting physical. It ended in something worth the effort. I think it only goes to show that your R can be worked out BUT only if and when she is ready to take responsibility and GROW UP! You aren't perfect and probably a real pain in the ass sometimes and so is she. That is part of a R! What is it that these WAS's spouses don't get about that? If it ain't perfect, walk away Lastly, detaching is, I think, a state of mind that comes and goes (we're only human). The more we detach the better for us and the sitch as a whole but I also think it's good to keep letting those feelings touch us again once in a while too!
Lastly, detaching is, I think, a state of mind that comes and goes (we're only human). The more we detach the better for us and the sitch as a whole but I also think it's good to keep letting those feelings touch us again once in a while too! 
