also thanks for the great article, guess that's what H meant when he said "get your solace elsewhere", I'm getting it here.
When you loose respect for each other is time to give each other looooooooooots of space, she isn't well. I believe you to be a pretty reasonable guy, and for things to get to the point they got she must've really flipped her lid.
I see a bit of the old me in your W, making a storm in a cup of water, getting all worked up and forcing H to appease my hurt feelings even though he wans't the cause of the uproar, it was all in my head. So I puffed and I puffed 'til I blew my self up in a hissy fit created by my very own while blaming H for not blaming himself and appologizing. She needs to look at herself REAL good, 'til then, I pray you keep up w/detaching from her toxic behavior.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.