" She is choosing to destroy our damaged marriage. I contributed to the damage, not the ultimate destruction. She is to blame for that choice. I am responsible for her not being happy in our relationship. Clear. My blame doesn't do anything to help heal us, or to contibute to all of us moving forward in a way that will help us grow as people and be happy in our lives.
You just expressed how I am truly feeling. Don't you wish they could just see things as we do? I told my H so many times that if we could get through this our R would be stronger and better than ever. His reply was "That's your opinion".
