I know what you are saying. My H has yet to look at his part in the breakup of our M. For him the answer to his unhappiness was having an A . H left me for Ow and is still with her. ( 1 year and 4 months later) How does he think that this R will be any different when he never looked at himself and took any blame in our M?
It's funny when H left he told me that he needed time "alone" to figure out what he wanted out of life. All along he had this Ow, he was never "alone".
I read Mars/Venus it is a great book. I agree that it is sad that the WAS has no desire to learn about R before jumping right into another one.
