One last thing - what does it mean when she thinks I'm not at all entitled to being resentful and actually expects me to take the higher ground and criticizes me when I'm not doing that? I think she wants me to cooperate with her and do the divorce the right way, yet she offers nothing in the way of compromise - she's entitled to continue her relationship and I'm supposed to just get over it, be over it, accept it, you name it. Resisting it does nothing but hurt me, and entrench her more deeply, I know, but it just makes no sense.
“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. ” – Albert Einstein